There’s a list of official aid collaborations provided by all (or most) countries here.
The death count is now 125,000, and for the Indonesian ambassador in Malaysia, it could reach 400,000 _for the sole_ Indonesia. (link). I am totally blown away by what happened. 
I don’t know how I can possibly greet the new year with happiness. It’s just beyond belief.
A little, yet nice reaction to this tragedy: in Italy many towns cancelled the already planned new year’s eve parties because of the catastrophe in south-Asia. I’m just curious…. I wonder if other countries have adopted similar “anti-happiness” initiatives policies.
Today’s Apple home page is a shut-down page, reading “Out hearts reach out to those hurt by the Indian Ocean tsunamis.” and then “Help survivors and their families by making monetary donations to these organizations: American Red Cross, AmeriCares, Direct Relief International, Médecins Sans Frontières International, Oxfam, Sarvodaya, Save the Children, UNICEF”. (Google cache link)
Llamasoft’s forum partecipants are organizing a fund donation effort in the thread “Come on lets fuckin help them.“. The llamasofties are people you can trust. Please partecipate, donate a buck or two.
Update (4 Jan 2005): on the the Llamasoft forum 1100 uk pounds have already been donated by various forum partecipants.